3 Things I Always Do Before Every Boutique-Style Photoshoot

Hi friends! I get a lot of questions about how I prep before a family session, especially because I like to keep things super relaxed, natural, and organic. My photography style is never about stiff poses or perfect smiles—it’s about connection, emotion, and real-life beauty.

Every family is different, and part of my process is making sure your session feels like you. That’s why I always take the same three thoughtful steps before each boutique-style shoot to help us get there:

1. I Send You a Quick Pre-Session Questionnaire

This is the first thing I do after booking! It’s short and sweet—nothing overwhelming—but it gives me so much insight before our session.

I ask a few simple questions to get to know your kids (what they love, what makes them laugh, what might make them shy), and I also ask a bit about the rest of the family. This helps me walk into our time together with a better understanding of your dynamic and what matters most to you.

It’s not just about planning the photos—it’s about creating a space where your little ones feel seen and your family’s natural rhythm can shine through.

2. I Plan the Setup with Intention (and Bring My Own Backdrop!)

Every session is unique, and I love tailoring the look and feel to your family. I always bring a simple black or white backdrop with me, just in case we want something minimal and timeless. It’s perfect for cozy indoor moments with lots of focus on expression and connection.

But I’m also a big fan of working with your home and surroundings. Whether it’s your living room couch, the kids’ favorite window spot, or the backyard at golden hour, I love weaving those real-life elements into your story. It doesn’t have to be picture-perfect—it just has to be you. That’s where the magic lives.

3. I Prep for Flow, Not Perfection

Before every session, I spend a little time visualizing how it might unfold. I think about how to ease into the shoot in a way that feels natural, what little transitions we might need, and how to keep things light and easy, especially for the little ones.

I don’t come in with a rigid plan or a checklist of shots. Instead, I prep for a flow that allows space for real moments: a spontaneous cuddle, a burst of laughter, or a quiet glance between siblings. The best images often happen in between the “poses,” so I make sure there’s room for those in-between moments to show up.